Monday, December 2, 2013

The EX-Effect

If you have every been in a relationship, then you have an ex. Until you have only been in one and
you guys are still together of course. How much the ex-factor can affect your life is depending on the details of the relationship. How long were you two together? How did you two split up? Was it an amicable break or not?

Recently I was watching a show called "The X-Effect" in which a show puts individuals who were exs on a date. At the end, they have to choose between their ex and their current bf/gf. It really interests me to see what happens at the end. What I want to know is, why do people go back to their ex? Do they feel like things have changed? Or the person changed? Or is it they want to see what may have happened if they never gave up on it.

I have been in the position to rekindle an old flame. But in retrospect I realized that whats done is done and there is no need to try and revisit past mistakes. I feel like mistakes are meant to be learned from, not repeated. It is just my thoughts, I have friends that go back to their exs all the times. And things just repeat. This is just what I do not understand.

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